"Normally, I would interpret the kinds of pangs you're describing as the belated realization that you are beginning to feel more seriously about him and are regretting not taking the step of asking for exclusivity."
Says Quentin, aware that Elijah is never led anywhere he isn't already going, and would protest if this were not the case.
"But of course in exchange for doing so you would probably need to make a personal commitment to listen to those needs first and be working to fulfill them. Rhys- likes to be liked, and needs to be needed. Non-monogamy is a good way for him to get access to that effusiveness from other people."
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Date: 2019-12-11 04:54 pm (UTC)Says Quentin, aware that Elijah is never led anywhere he isn't already going, and would protest if this were not the case.
"But of course in exchange for doing so you would probably need to make a personal commitment to listen to those needs first and be working to fulfill them. Rhys- likes to be liked, and needs to be needed. Non-monogamy is a good way for him to get access to that effusiveness from other people."